Social Media has become more and more a central part of many people’s lives, and not just young people.

How many people are on social media? Social media usage is one of the most popular online activities and in 2021, 82 percent of the population in the United States had a social networking profile, representing a two percent increase from the 80 percent usage reach in the previous year.

Many people don’t think before they post. Once you put it out there, you really can’t get it back. Many people post on a regular basis, and leave a trail of information. Social media data encompasses a broad range of online information including photos, purchase history, active hours on social media, engagement rate with certain types of content, and so much more – who you have been with, what you own, where you’ve been, etc.

Can social media messages be used in divorce court?

In divorce law, as well as criminal law, content on Facebook and other social media sites can be used as evidence since these sites document users’ messages, photos, and even their locations. It’s estimated that about 1 in 3 of all divorces cite at least one social media source.

Can social media posts be used in custody cases?

If you’re going through a divorce or child custody battle, it is important to know that the posts you make on social media platforms can be used as evidence against you.

Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.

You’ve probably heard stories about deadbeat dads that don’t pay any child support. If you are getting a divorce, you may be wondering if that could happen to you. Actually the penalties are stiff in Florida, and there is a mechanism on place for enforcement.

How long can you go without paying child support in Florida?

Actually, the paperwork starts after 15 days. You can confiscate their bank account, their tax refunds and put a lien on their car. If gone unpaid for too long, child support delinquency becomes a felony. You are four months past due, and you owe $2,500 or more you could be in big trouble. If the delinquency plus fees are not paid within 20 days, a judgment is entered against the respondent. The judgment becomes a lien against any real property owned by the respondent.

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How do you enforce child support in Florida?

The most common way to enforce a child support order is by filing a “motion for civil contempt.” Filing this motion (written request) tells the court that you have a valid child support order in place, and the noncustodial parent is behind on payments.

Getting divorced is a traumatic sobering experience. Be prepared and get ready.

Get legal representation. 

Finding a kind compassionate attorney that you are comfortable with will reduce the pain. You are probably going to hear some things that you aren’t going to like, so you want to hear it from someone who will give it to your gently.

You  want to find someone who is primarily a family law attorney. You want someone who is familiar with the different approaches to divorce. (Steven Hair is a Florida Supreme Court Family Law Mediator).

Have that talk with your spouse

Sit down with your spouse at a time when things are quiet and unhurried. Try to maintain a loving atmosphere as much as possible. This is someone that you loved at one time, and if children are involved, this relationship will go on for a lot more time. Remain calm. Revenge has no place in this process.

See if you can agree on the approach.

There are many different avenues to take when it comes to divorce. If the atmosphere is really friendly, a collaborative divorce is the most desirable and least expensive. If things or cordial but you disagree on a few things, mediation will streamline the process and save you some money. If you miles apart, you may have to use the conventional approach and go through the courts.

For most, what comes to mind are traditional litigation tactics, which can result in individuals battling out the terms of their separation in court. However, there are other viable methods and approaches for divorce. For example, there are options for collaborative divorce and mediation. In these approaches, the couple can work together to reach agreements on support, alimony, or parenting plans. It is essential to point out that not every couple can negotiate or is willing to compromise. In these situations, traditional litigation and court-based approaches are the way to go.

Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.

Steven Hair

What is your background?

Are you a family law attorney? It that you the area you spend most of your time on, or do you practice other specialties also? How long have you been practicing family law? How are your Google reviews?

Do you practice alternate forms of divorce?

Do you have experience in mediation or negotiated settlements, or do you only handle conventional divorces?

What is your strategy for my case?

Do you take an aggressive approach, or do you attempt to create a pleasant climate?

How accessible are you?

How long will it take for you to return a phone call or an email? Are you available outside of standard office hours for an emergency situation?

Cost

What is your hourly rate? Do you charge by the hour or by the task? What do you estimate the divorce will cost for legal fees?

Result

What do you predict will be the final result of the divorce in terms of property settlement and custody arrangements? Will there be temporary orders?

Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.

If you are going to get a divorce, you have to disclose your financial information in court, where the whole world can see it. There is no getting around this. Filing a Florida Financial Affidavit is required.

You are going to have to disclose all of your income. That includes salary, including bonuses, any government benefits like social security and disability, your pension, and income from investments.

You can obviously subtract your deductions from income, like taxes, 401 K withholding, insurance premiums and alimony or child support.

Your are going to have to disclose all of your assets. If you have the urge to hide things, don’t do it. If one party suspects that they other party is not disclosing everything, they can hire a financial forensic person, who with subpoena power can probably find almost everything.

If the court finds that you failed to provide complete disclosure, they can declare the divorce decree invalid, and they could even require that you pay the other party’s legal fees.

Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.

Did you just move here? A lot of people did. The latest stats from snntv.com indicate that nearly 1000 people move here every day and many are coming from northern states like New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut. According to move.org, Florida was the most moved to state in 2020.

For some divorcees, that means moving out of state to be closer to family, a new job, or to start a new adventure. If you’re planning on relocating to another state after your divorce, make sure you start out on the right path.

If your divorce decree creates continuing obligations between you and your ex-spouse, you need to let your spouse know about your move. For example, if you are receiving or providing alimony or child support, your ex-spouse should be able to locate you.

Can You Move Out of State With Children?

If you are a parent, the procedures for moving to a new state might be more complicated since your move will affect not only you but also your children and your ex-spouse. Generally, you can only move a child out of state with the other parent or court’s permission.

We can assist you in recording your divorce decree in a Florida court. This is make it easier for you to enforce the stipulations in the decree. Call out office for an appointment.

Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.

There are many reasons why people get a divorce

Someone Isn’t Trying

It takes two people working together to keep it together. One person can’t do it by themselves. Marriage takes work and commitment. A lack of commitment will really contribute towards a divorce happening.

Not That Much in Common

As time goes on, your interests change. You may find that you don’t have as much in common as you to. In the early days, you had infatuation to keep you interested. As time goes by, infatuation naturally goes away. Real love is when you want to be together after the infatuation goes away. You can work to find common interests that you both enjoy.

Cheating

This one is a biggie. And it’s not always the man. Twenty percent of men cheat, but 13 percent of women cheat. When this comes out in the open, it is very hard to overcome. Some people are able to work through the infidelity and get past it, but most people get divorced.

Bad Behavior

Sometimes there is abuse, physical or mental. Frequent demeaning comments can be more painful than a slap in the face. Addiction of one of the spouses can be difficult to overcome, particularly if there are financial consequences.

Regardless of the reason, perhaps you are ready to talk about a divorce. Call our office and make an appointment with Steve Hair. Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.

Divorce is painful, but it is also expensive. There are a variety of factors that do into a divorce.

Temporary Orders

If there are children involved, you need to reach an agreement as to who is going to pay what during the interim. Life goes on. You still have to pay for the sports activities, the doctors visits and all the day to day expenses. If the primary wage earner is leaving the household, the mortgage payment and the power bill  still have to be paid. Hopefully the spouses can agree on a temporary arrangement. However, it may be necessary for the judge to rule on temporary orders.

Litigation is obviously the most expensive route. How friendly is your relationship with your ex? Mediation or a collaborative are much less painful and less expensive alternatives.

One of the spouses may have a lot of anger or deep emotional feelings that may not be entirely rational and that may get in the way of process. There may be a perceived need for some sort of revenge or a need to create pain. Someone needs to give consul to the angry party, and try to hep them move through this.

Liquidating Assets

The more assets, the higher the cost of the dissolution. If it will be necessary to sell the house, this is going to take some time. Buying a house in today’s market is incredibly challenging. Sellers are frequently receiving multiple bids, with many way over the asking price. There is a considerable shortage of homes, particularly on the more affordable housing. If one of the spouses is downsizing, this is going to be tricky. Interest rates have gone way up on mortgages, and it’s only going to get worse. You may experience a horrible sticker shock, and you may have to downsize more than you had hoped, due to the increased costs.

Hidden Assets

Do you suspect that your spouse has hidden some things? If you do and you need to pursue this, the investigative process is going to take time and can get really expensive. perhaps you can find a financial person that you could agree on who you would consider neutral who could examine your assets and give you an opinion.

You need to be informed going forward. You should call our office and arrange for a consultation with Steve Hair.

Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.

When a married couple has children, it is normally assumed that the husband is the father. However, this may not be the case. Also, when an unwed mother has a child, the paternity of the father may be very much in question.

The mother may wish to establish paternity of the father for financial reasons. If the suspected father refuses to admit paternity, the mother may request a court hearing. The suspected father is required to attend. Based on the testimony, the judge may require a DNA test. The suspected father is required to comply. This is called “involuntary paternity determination”.

If paternity is established through DNA testing, the father may be required to make child support payments. The father may or may not be granted visitation rights. This will be determined through the circumstances. If you are involved in this type of situation, you would be well advised the consult with a qualified family law attorney.

Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.

Last week was Super Bowl Sunday. While that was probably fun for many people, for, people with relationship problems, it can be a dreaded day. It is certainly a day for excessive drinking, up there with New Years Eve. It is a big day for domestic violence, and it can be a big day for gambling.

Does your spouse have a problem with gambling addiction? Gambling addiction is the uncontrollable urge to continue gambling despite the toll it takes on one’s life. Gambling is addictive because it stimulates the brain’s reward system much like drugs or alcohol can. In fact, gambling addiction is the most common impulse control disorder worldwide.

How do I stop my gambling addiction?

Professional help is available to stop gambling and stay away from it for good.

1. Understand the Problem. You can’t fix something that you don’t understand. …
2. Join a Support Group. …
3. Avoid Temptation. …
4. Postpone Gambling. …
5. Find Alternatives to Gambling. …
6. Think About the Consequences. …\
7. Seek Professional Help.

What Causes an Addiction to Gambling? Many factors can contribute to a gambling addiction, including desperation for money, the desire to experience thrills and highs, the social status associated with being a successful gambler, and the entertaining atmosphere of the mainstream gambling scene.

Can a compulsive gambler change? Considerable changes in attitude and behavior have to occur on the part of the gambler and spouse/family. In conclusion, while not every action compulsive gambler will go through every stage of the cycle, he will normally go through the first three at a minimum. Many stop at stage four and never make it to recovery.

Is your spouse’s gambling affecting the family’s finances? If so, you may want to call our office and come in for a consultation. Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.

For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.