Getting divorced is a traumatic sobering experience. Be prepared and get ready.
Get legal representation.
Finding a kind compassionate attorney that you are comfortable with will reduce the pain. You are probably going to hear some things that you aren’t going to like, so you want to hear it from someone who will give it to your gently.
You want to find someone who is primarily a family law attorney. You want someone who is familiar with the different approaches to divorce. (Steven Hair is a Florida Supreme Court Family Law Mediator).
Have that talk with your spouse
Sit down with your spouse at a time when things are quiet and unhurried. Try to maintain a loving atmosphere as much as possible. This is someone that you loved at one time, and if children are involved, this relationship will go on for a lot more time. Remain calm. Revenge has no place in this process.
See if you can agree on the approach.
There are many different avenues to take when it comes to divorce. If the atmosphere is really friendly, a collaborative divorce is the most desirable and least expensive. If things or cordial but you disagree on a few things, mediation will streamline the process and save you some money. If you miles apart, you may have to use the conventional approach and go through the courts.
For most, what comes to mind are traditional litigation tactics, which can result in individuals battling out the terms of their separation in court. However, there are other viable methods and approaches for divorce. For example, there are options for collaborative divorce and mediation. In these approaches, the couple can work together to reach agreements on support, alimony, or parenting plans. It is essential to point out that not every couple can negotiate or is willing to compromise. In these situations, traditional litigation and court-based approaches are the way to go.
Steven W. Hair, focuses his practice as a divorce attorney, family law attorney in Clearwater, Palm Harbor, and Safety Harbor.
For more information, visit our website at www.FamilyLawClearwater.com
or call (727) 726-0797.